Yesterday was Mother's Day. I couldn't tell you the number of people who came up to me and congratulated me and wished me happy mothers day. It rubbed me though. Because I already am a mother.
I care for JJ just like his mom does. Although he doesn't call me mom, I do all the momly things when he is with us. For three years I've officially had this role, six if you go unofficially. I know what he likes and doesn't, when he's sick, or lying. He snuggles with me on the couch. I go to all his soccer games and school functions. We are pretty much the average family.
I know its different having your own child. But I don't think its fair that step-mothers get forgotten. Gene and JJ have always thought of me before, but it was obvious how many other people didn't even think of it.
Being a step parent is hard. At least for me it is. I know I will never be his mother, and I don't want to take anything away from his mother. But, I want to be a part of his life. Its a very tricky balance. One that JJ handles well, but at times I've had my struggles. Its only going to get trickier.
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